This past weekend was really relaxing. Saturday morning we got up and J mowed the lawn while Ben and I went to the grocery store. Right before we left, J and I were talking about how we wanted to get Ben a little basketball hoop-the kind that stands on the floor and and be lowered or raised based on the child’s height. Ben had played with one at a Parent’s As Teachers event we took him to and he loved it. And as luck would have it, as Ben and I turned out of our drive way, I noticed the neighbors up the street were having a garage sale and…